Bully - Feel The Same

What this video is

Released November 2, 2017, 'Feel The Same' arrived during a renewed cultural reckoning with gender, domesticity, and emotional labor in America — the early weeks of the #MeToo wave. Lazy Mom's practice, rooted in the social expectation that women feed and nurture, transforms mundane domestic objects into sites of surrealist tension and destruction. The video's deliberate rejection of rock performance conventions —…

Why it matters

Represents a significant formal departure in the alt-rock/grunge-adjacent music video canon: a high-tempo grunge track paired with a wholly non-performative, artist-collaboration concept video. Situates mid-2010s indie rock within a broader feminist visual art conversation, demonstrating the…

The director

Lazy Mom is a collaborative creative project formed by artists Josie Keefe and Phyllis Ma. The duo is known for food-centric photography, stop-motion animation, and zine publishing. Their work engages themes of domesticity, femininity, and the social…